Reader Question:
I understood this girl for about 2 yrs today (let us call this lady Ariel). We became good buddies.
I then found out Ariel broke up with the woman sweetheart, thus I noticed this as my chance to move in. We had been texting each other and I also finished up telling the lady the way I thought. She said, “i’m very sorry if I mislead you, but I’m not really finding any person immediately.”
Ought I only try to progress, or do I need to have patience, watch for the woman in order to get over her break up and then try to be there on her?
-Derryck (Pennsylvania)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:
Dear Derryck,
Very first error was actually texting crucial thoughts. It offered this lady a straightforward away. Its simpler to type words of rejection than to say them.
The next occasion, do have more face and phone time and perform some enjoyable tasks that may not appear to be classic dates. Then you’ll know by her visual communication and body vocabulary if she really likes you.
As for this gal, sorry to break it for you, however probably blew it.
The single thing you are able to do now’s work indifferent to this lady and go out together with other ladies. She might observe you have not already been seeing the lady, which could top her interest.
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